Looks like you don't have the sv_downloadurl set up correctly on issue #2.
Well, its the same downloadurl as i had before i re-installed gmod. Clientside re-install i might add...
allowdownload is all set, its downloading all lua to lua_temp as it should.
www.bybservers.com/gmod is the downloadurl if you care to check

Thanks for input but don't see how its that, considering its since i did a clientside re-install.
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Just to clarify, this is a dedicated server on an external box.
The reinstall was completly client side, i had to remove ls2/rd2 and it wasnt letting me.
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Ok, I just tried to fix myself with playing with lua files, know its totally screwed, im going to put Problem2 down to a bad install and do a full download overnight, it shouldnt hurt my bandwidth to much, long as i backup my addons. (Problem 2 fixed,gnight

So just problem1