If you truly have both ULib and ULX installed on your server, then by default, typing !menu in console will make a menu popup.
If you have superadmin on your server, then that menu will include even more features.
So, if you're not seeing the menu when you type !menu in chat, you must not have it installed properly on the server, or another add-on is causing chat commands to break.
Try "ulx help" from game console and server console.
Work there?
No?
See the ULib_readme.txt in your /addons/ulib folder and ulx_readme.txt in your /addons/ulx folder. They give basic 'where do files go' instruction for our addons.
See our Frequently asked questions forum area.
http://forums.ulyssesmod.net/index.php/board,30.0.htmlGive us more info as to what isn't working.
Errors during startup of the server.
Server type (Win/linux Listen/dedicated?)
Stuff like that.